Love or Lust?
Posted by: Ralphy
30th Nov 2010 02:44pm
Here is my question. What is better ???? LOVE or LUST.
From experience my opinion would be that although love is grand when you are in love with someone, the problem is it tends to end and end bad. Where lust is pure physical attraction... you don't have to worry about if they snore or if they leave their socks on the floor or don't put down the toilet seat, it is pure physical attraction that may last one night or one month but never ever becomes anything serious and you never get the chance to be bored of each other...
Love is being able to sit in the same room as someon and there not be awkward silences.. no need to try and fill in the gaps, knowing each other very well, knowing that when you come home he or she is there waiting for you and will be happy to see you..
Both have there ups and downs, I'm just curious to see who would choose one over the other and why....
woodie
- 12th Jan 2012 02:39pm
I agree. I have been married to a great guy for over 26 years but sometimes a bit of lust would be nice. He looks at pictures of thin women in very little clothing and yet doesn't seem to look at me like that. Even though I'm disabled, I still have desires and often try for attention that rarely leads to results. The only time he shows interests is when he suddenly feels the mood. I know he works hard and is in a lot of pain but his actions have left me with a very low opinion of my body image. I'm not overweight but feel fat and ugly..In every other way, he is caring and thoughtful. I just wish he could see my needs at times.
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