Society & Culture

Mobile Phones

Society & Culture

Posted by: Anonymous

25th May 2007 01:18pm

Our first topic is about something many of us would rather live without, but double back home to get if we leave them behind. Mobile phones.

We'd like to know your thoughts on mobiles phones and their usage. Things like when you should or shouldn't use them, what time is too late to call someone and when is it appropriate or inappropriate to text or call.


heartharmony
  • 7th Jun 2007 09:59am

Recently I bought my daughter her first (prepaid) mobile phone and part of the deal was her having to sit down and listen to my little lecture on phone manners.

The main things we covered were:

* mobiles are just like normal phones so many of the old rules still apply - no calling/texting after 8.30pm (she is a kid after all),

* you don't have to immediately answer a call or text - it is OK to screen the call/text and return calls/texts at a more convenient time (teaching basic time management skills),

* if you are doing something really important or wanting/needing to focus on a person or a situation, then the phone is either turned to silent or turned off. This includes cinemas, at school, catching up with friends, during homework time. Once the focus is over you can check the phone, but not before or during. If you leave it on it shows that you don't truly value the people you are with.

* text is like email - they may or may not need a reply (think about each piece of communication before you do it or say it),

* don't text when you are angry. If you are angry turn the phone off and put it away for at least an hour to think about the best response.

* do text when you are happy. If you are really thrilled with something, it is OK to share your enthusiasm with your friends/family. I often text her to tell her I love her or to wish her luck before a test.

* at night - put the phone away. Mobiles don't need human contact at night - it is OK to put them on charge away from your bedside table and preferably downstairs (just in case you have rude friends who call or text at night).

Just like most tools, we need to be taught what is the best way to use it for maximum benefit, otherwise it can take over things and create more work rather than be the helper we originally bought it for.


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