Is it ok to be happy
Posted by: Rocky40
3rd Mar 2011 09:57am
My partner and I are blissfully happy and in love, but over the last six weeks we have had four sets of friends brake up. I now find that some of these people are now acting strange around us, like we aren't meant to be happy because they aren't. Both my partner and I have been married before so we know what they are going through and are trying to be supportive but it is hard when they are being short tempered and gloomy all the time when around us it really brings the mood down for everyone. My question to the world is have others found this among their friends, does it get better or have we lost our friends.
Phoenixarizona
- 18th Mar 2011 05:25pm
Wow what wonderful friends you have to sit and be envious of your happiness and treat you badly for it. That's lovely.
In all though I don't think you have lost your friends. They're bitter. I think that you will find that if you give them a bit of time, and maybe not see them when your partner is around they will eventually get over it. The problem with having single friends is that they see how in love and happy you are and then can't understand why they don't have that.
Be happy, enjoy being happy and don't worry about your friends tthey will come round.
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