Love or Lust?
Posted by: Ralphy
30th Nov 2010 02:44pm
Here is my question. What is better ???? LOVE or LUST.
From experience my opinion would be that although love is grand when you are in love with someone, the problem is it tends to end and end bad. Where lust is pure physical attraction... you don't have to worry about if they snore or if they leave their socks on the floor or don't put down the toilet seat, it is pure physical attraction that may last one night or one month but never ever becomes anything serious and you never get the chance to be bored of each other...
Love is being able to sit in the same room as someon and there not be awkward silences.. no need to try and fill in the gaps, knowing each other very well, knowing that when you come home he or she is there waiting for you and will be happy to see you..
Both have there ups and downs, I'm just curious to see who would choose one over the other and why....
Lastcardlouis
- 14th Apr 2012 03:25pm
I've had plenty of both and I have to say that absolutely nothing beats pure unbridled lust if the feeling is mutual, but it's no way to start a relationship. Long term, love is what you need (I think there might be a song in that...).
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