Society & Culture

The acceptability in society of Gay males VS Gay Females.

Society & Culture

Posted by: squishy2668

26th Oct 2011 05:03pm

Can anyone tell me why male on male relationships are not accepted by society and female on female sex is tolerated?

I am a gay male who has been in a relationship for the last 7 years with the same person. We are currently paying off a mortgage together and live like a "normal" defacto couple. So why the stigmata ?

Also why can we not get married and afforded the same reasonable rights as a heterosexual couple?

I understand the religious point of view, however I believe that if religion wants to outlaw gay marriage it should be made responsible for all records relating to marriage if the individual couple so wishes. It should be a matter of keeping state and religion free and separate of each other.

What are everyone else s thoughts?.


trix56
  • 22nd Nov 2011 04:00pm

As a hetro female I lasted 7 years with my husband and now I'm coming up for 7 years with my current partner so I think you're doing really well.
My partner is a bit funny about gay guys but not gay women. No, I don't understand it!
As for gay marriages, hetro couples can have non-religious weddings that are still legal. Why not gays? I believe you are entitled to the same rights as hetro couples.
PS: when I was a lot younger and living in Perth all my best friends were gay (both men and women) and they were the nicest most caring people I have ever know.
Good luck to you and your partner. Eventually they will legalise marriage.


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