Open Relationships

Posted by: Melada

31st Aug 2011 01:59pm

I would like to hear peoples thoughts on married couples who have so called (open relatinships), and who "arent" sexually active with each other, ie what does it mean to you, what restrictions (if any) should be placed on the partner (if only 1 of the couple is into seeking fun elsewhere) and the other 1 isnt interested.

Melada

23rd Sep 2011 07:31pm

Thanks Jill, I admire your honesty and i dont take it to heart as i often think of myself as being foolish, I sometimes need to hear it from others as i doubt myself a lot, as you said "I hope you can break the cycle quicker than you did" well i have been dating this guy for 18 months now and i am hooked i mean seriously hooked and i feel its going to be harder than a ever to break "the cycle" especially since his wife has given us her blessing to see each other weekly even if its only 1 night, my god..any other woman would have ripped my throat out for sleeping with her husband BUT she knows herself i am making him happy and i too am happy atm my mind just wanders from time too time, and i know the longer i wait the harder its going to get.

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